Thursday, July 12, 2012

If you know not received can not be happy!


The willingness to learn receive is an issue that is often part of working with women. This made me reflect on how we prepare for the future.

Imagine that after some unsatisfying relationship, know a good man, generous and is willing to take care. As time goes on you discover this ... without knowing why, sometimes you're grumpy or even bother what he does for you, it seems that the more attention you pay him more annoying are you! Sometimes you have mood swings and there are days when you find fault with anything I do or say.

How will you be able to receive all the love that someone can give you if you have not been trained for it ... if you're not trained to be happy?

If you had when you were a child you filled environment of pampering, hugs, kisses, I constantly told how much you want, you deserve the best of life, prepared to give you the best of you and of course to know how to receive the best of others, then we're ready!

And if that were the case, probably would not be learning how to train yourself to be happy ...

Let's see this in more detail:

When you do something for someone you feel good, right? It's nice to give and receive the other person with a smile or a thank you is nice to feel that feeling is not it?

So, because you want to deprive others feel that too? What they give you is good for you, right?

When you give away you feel good no? You're a good "given" yes?

So if someone gives you love, time, pampering, gifts, honey, you should be a good "receiver will" and give back your smile and a Thank you! Do not you think?

You know I think? which in the wrong way in this society women prepare us well for the worst, when things go wrong, we put up, put a good face, dignity and even disguise as if nothing had happened ... but at least we prepare!

And for good? Even taking into consideration as you act when things go wrong. We train for when things go well, with phrases how are you:

Beware ... do not rely too ready for when bad times come not to boast of your success or God will punish ... Shhhh ... can not celebrate while you can cause the envy of others!

Obviously, with such programming when things go well or a man is kind, loving, gentle and generous, end up feeling uncomfortable and we feel like running away ..!

To be happy is essential to learn to get ... compliments, gifts, touch, attention, money, love, ultimately Energy in all its facets!

We must change these mental programs that we've come and change the world of women!

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