Friday, July 13, 2012

Who Determines Your Real Value?


People define "work" because they pay a living wage and offer benefits, bonuses, vacation pay. Others refer to their work because they drive a company car, give it a home. But really do you think these material things are what determine the real value of a person? or does the value of a human being should be determined by his actions and thoughts?

You have natural talents and abilities that are inherent to you, such as easy for you to get along with people, you can understand things using logic, you have the ability to focus and stay focused, get organized, etc.. Then you have other skills that are seized or acquired through learning, such as through your education, society, for reading and listening material dealing with the subject, attend seminars and enables you to someone special.

But these talents or abilities do not determine your true "value."

The truth of the matter is that you determine your true value. It does when it determines that things are really worth your life. It is through your actions or omissions, and when you do not take a decision that is in itself a decision, they determine your value through your inaction .. Build on your dreams and desires, also determine your real value. All this depends entirely on you.

You can read many books on this subject, listen to many recordings, attend seminars or conferences, but in reality, without a plan, without taking action, you can set these parameters to determine your true worth.

You need to dream again. Do you remember what were your dreams when you were a child? Dreaming is great, adults should remember that it is essential to dream, dreams are needed to refine evolutionary beings. Then you should see those dreams, giving them a present tense as if they lived today.

Use visualization to create your goals in all areas of your life, not just to material possessions. When you make your goals targeting must include at least six major areas of your life, where you need to take certain decisions. Write an action plan to launch activities that allow you to achieve your goals.

Keep track of the activities that require work on a calendar or a diary to record each of the feelings and ideas that come to mind that day. Daily schedule these aspects, enables you to watch your action plan, review offers the opportunity to learn how to start, grow and become what your vision tells you that you should be.

When using these tools, is there anything that could stop you achieve your real value? Do you do a conversation with yourself? Can you imagine what would be to reacquaint yourself with your most sincere feelings? Change your thoughts, needs some help, for example, using the phrases of affirmation. Read every day phrases of affirmation will help you change your mind and your thought patterns.

If you feel you lack the capacity to forgive someone, you feel anger, resentment or bitterness against a person or going through a difficult situation, you are creating an artery that is covering your future and your real value.

Make a list with the person or persons with whom you feel you have the need to forgive, but it is not necessary that you face them face to face to do it, just create that feeling of forgiveness, make the list, burn it, then destroy it or throw it and let all the pain into oblivion, and move on with your life.

Getting inside you your true value, is an incredible journey, because you see yourself moving on where you went to the place where your vision takes you. This trip can last a day, week or month, it all depends on each person. But it takes time and a real commitment to initiate and continue this adventure.

You'll notice that as time passes, the adventure is worth much more than what you imagined for your goals, your vision of you and you do daily affirmations, causing a change in your mind. Also notice that your journal helps you keep track of this trip, getting small or large results in the transformation of your beliefs.

To achieve your real value, you need a plan or system that helps you at first, with good planning, organization and monitoring this emotional affair. Once you boot, you should just focus on your desires and take action to start moving. The hesitation and indecision let back, take action to move forward with your life and you can enjoy a future where the real value determined by how you as a person.

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